Links I Love

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Nine links inspiring my new space ...

I have about two weeks before I move back to Winston-Salem, so I've been rethinking my whole interior design plan. Lately, muted patterns and fabrics with an emphasis on texture and an overall feel of styled comfort have captured my eye. Today I'm going shopping for pieces that are functional and represent my current style. My hope is they transition from Winston-Salem to my new home this winter without a hitch.

Today's links I love are spaces that inspire me as well as pieces I love...

1. My space is heavily inspired by this office. 

2. Such a gorgeous home with bold walls and muted accents. 

3. Loving the gallery wall. 

4. I'm looking for pillows galore today. These ones are great.

5. I'll definitely be working in a small space, so these offices are great.

6. I have my eyes on those blush towels.  

7. I like the look of these kinds of twinkle lights in a room.

8. This contact paper is perfect for the table I just bought.

9. This space has me drooling. 

Clearly I'm obsessed with "blush". Maybe because I blush constantly? Have a great week! Xx.

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We're Looking for Interns!

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This was originally posted July 11th. Just a reminder to those applying to be Great Vibes Guide Interns: all applications must be in by August 19th; I'll be sending out responses the following week. Can't wait to read what everyone has to say and connect with my new team! Xx. 

It's an exciting time for The Great Vibes Guide! We're currently searching for several interns to join our team. Here's everything you need to know...

Our ideal intern has a solid understanding and engagement with social media, an interest in the blogging scene, and is enthusiastic about working for a fun and growing startup. Interested? Read more below. 

Intern Description

-Part time position, 5-10 hours a week, flexible scheduling

- Responsible for working with The Guide's creative team in strategizing and developing unique and engaging content across all The Great Vibes Guide digital platforms. This role works directly with the founder, Emily Friend, in managing the content schedule and pitching new concepts for current and future series. Your goal is to help increase views, shares, and build our growing community.

- Unpaid but with free perks like Great Vibes swag, cocktail and recipe tastings, fun team trips and dinners, and much more. 

What you’ll do:

- Pitching content, writing, and real-time maintenance/monitoring of our various channels; includes editorial and sponsored content

- Pitching weekly ideas for both blog and social activations

- Staying up to date on key industry trends, competitive insights, and emerging social media / marketing / e-commerce technologies

What you should have/be:

- Background or degree in marketing, communications, journalism or equivalent.

- Solid understanding of and actively engaged in using social media platforms (i.e. Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, Snapchat, Instagram, etc.)

- Well-versed in digital media and social media metrics

- Deep interest in health, decor, cocktails, food, and lifestyle content and knowledge of key brands, sites, and influencers

- Passion for creating beautiful and inspiring content

- Strategic thinker willing to bring fresh, innovative ideas to life

- Works well under guidance with a strong sense of initiative and accountability

- Strong interpersonal and analytical skills with great attention to detail

- Well organized and able to manage multiple projects simultaneously and effectively

- A team player who is interested and willing to collaborate with other members of The Guide team and affiliates

If you're interested in this position, please email: emily@emilyfriend.org and include why you are interested, any background information you might have suiting this position, links/usernames of your blog/Facebook/Instagram/Twitter/Snapchat (as applicable), 3 content ideas you think would work for The Great Vibes Guide, and how you live a healthy lifestyle of Great Vibes in 25 words or less. 

Can't wait to hear from you and chat! Xx. 

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Public Displays of Affection: The Dos and Don'ts

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A little goes a looooong way. 

Note from the Editor: This is a new series called Weekly Niceties. It's bits of etiquette, finer details, and an emphasis on infusing class into the 21st century in a non-stodgy way. We seem to be on a bit of a relationship kick lately. Cheers! Xx. 

I've cautioned myself away from this topic because of the many forms PDA can take and the difference in comfortability each person has with his or her own sexuality. Eventually, though, I realized it boils down to a necessary social and situational awareness. There is a significant difference, as I am sure we can all agree, in hand holding or placing a hand at the small of someone's back and groping one's significant other in public. I believe that great love is rarely flaunted publicly but rather shows itself through attentiveness, active listening, trailing gazes, and whispered comments. The emotion and pride underlying each of those actions is demonstration enough of the love one feels for another. It is in that opinion that I follow very simple rules when it comes to public displays of affection:

DO:

+ Praise your partner publicly by highlighting their accomplishments, engaging them in conversation, and celebrating their success regardless of how mundane it may be to you. 

+ Hold hands if the situation permits (i.e. maybe not while bowling but definitely when you're at a party or out to dinner).

+ Kiss your partner on the cheek as you leave or sit down beside them if it does not interrupt the conversation or flow of events or cause anyone discomfort at the action.

DONT:

+ Make out in public spaces in such a manner that it impacts others' ability to talk or move about the area freely. 

+ Grope one another or have sexual intercourse of any kind. 

My opinion is generally along the following lines: if you would be uncomfortable to see someone else do it in front of you, don't do it. Remember that if you're in the midst of a great love, the world will know by the way you talk about them, cherish their existence, and weave them into your life. 

Cheers to rosy affection and timeless loves! Xx. 
 

+What's your opinion on PDA? Yay or nay? Anything I missed? Let's discuss.

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